Family Therapy on Long Island

Support for Parents. Tools for Families. Connection That Lasts.
Family life can be deeply fulfilling—and deeply challenging. Between school stress, technology overload, and shifting social pressures, even the most well-meaning parents can find themselves at a loss for how to best support their children. Whether you’re feeling disconnected from your child, stuck in constant power struggles, or simply unsure how to navigate a particular phase of parenting, family therapy can help.
I offer insight-driven, practical family therapy for parents and caregivers across Manhasset and Long Island—both in-person and online. Together, we’ll unpack the dynamics in your household and give you tools to rebuild connection, reduce conflict, and create a home where everyone feels seen and respected.
Parenting Doesn’t Come with a Rulebook
Most parents I work with aren’t failing—they’re overwhelmed. You may be doing your best and still feel like:
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You’re constantly walking on eggshells around your child or teen
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Communication breaks down no matter how hard you try
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You don’t recognize the mood shifts, resistance, or apathy in your child
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Discipline either escalates the situation or doesn’t seem to work at all
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You and your co-parent aren’t on the same page
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You’re carrying guilt or self-doubt from your own upbringing
Sound familiar? You’re not alone. Parenting challenges are normal—but you don’t have to navigate them in the dark.
What Family Therapy Can Address
Every family is different, but many of the same struggles show up across households:
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Emotional disconnect between parents and children
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School-related stress, bullying, or peer conflict
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Defiant behavior and constant power struggles
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Sibling rivalry or breakdowns in family communication
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Co-parenting tensions or inconsistent discipline
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Parental burnout, anxiety, or self-doubt
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Unhealed wounds from your own childhood impacting how you parent
Through therapy, we’ll look beyond the surface behavior to understand what’s really going on. Sometimes a child’s “acting out” is actually a plea for structure. Sometimes a parent’s anger is covering up fear or grief. We’ll untangle these patterns and work together to develop practical, sustainable strategies for change.
Why Do I Parent the Way I Do?
Whether you’re conscious of it or not, much of your parenting is shaped by how you were raised. If you grew up in a home where love was conditional, where emotions weren’t talked about, or where criticism outweighed connection, those experiences can quietly inform how you show up with your own child.
But here’s the good news: Parenting patterns are not permanent. With insight and support, you can shift from reacting to responding, from control to communication, from repeating to relearning.
What to Expect in Therapy
In our work together, you’ll learn how to:
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Improve communication with your child or teen
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Set clear, consistent boundaries with empathy
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Recognize emotional triggers—yours and theirs
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Break cycles of yelling, avoidance, or shutdown
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Validate your child’s feelings without losing authority
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Build emotional resilience—for them and for you
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Create a home environment built on safety, not tension
You’ll leave sessions with insight, language, and real-world tools you can use right away. This isn’t just theory—it’s about giving you clarity and confidence in the moments that matter most.
A Thoughtful, Supportive Approach
As a licensed psychotherapist with years of experience supporting families across Manhasset and Long Island, I bring a calm, grounded presence to what can often feel like a chaotic time. I’m not here to judge or “fix” your family—I’m here to listen, guide, and help you find new ways forward.
Whether your child is five or fifteen, whether you’re a single parent, a couple, or a blended family, therapy can open up space for healing, connection, and long-term change.
Let’s Talk
If parenting has become overwhelming—or if you simply want to strengthen the foundation of your family—I invite you to reach out.
Call me at (516) 627-1145 for a complimentary consultation to discuss any of these or related topics.
Dr. Maryann B. Schaefer, LMHC
Ph.D. – Counseling, Concentration in Psychology
NYS Licensed Mental Health Counselor
Fellow of American Psychotherapy Association
Phone: (516) 627-1145
Email: drmaryannschaefer@gmail.com
5 Travers Street Manhasset, NY 11030
Office Hours: By appointment only.

