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Postpartum Depression Counseling

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You’re Not Alone—And You’re Not Failing

You imagined what this moment would feel like—the joy, the connection, the glow of new motherhood. But now that your baby is here, everything feels… different. Overwhelming. Confusing. Maybe even devastating.

Instead of feeling blissful, you find yourself anxious, tearful, irritable, or numb. You may feel distant from your baby, ashamed of your thoughts, or afraid to tell anyone how you really feel. You might be asking yourself:
“What’s wrong with me?”

The answer is: Nothing. You are not broken. You are not a bad mother. You are going through something real, common, and treatable.

What Is Postpartum Depression?

Postpartum depression (PPD) is a mood disorder that affects many women after childbirth. It’s different from the “baby blues,” which usually resolve in a few days. PPD can linger for weeks or months—and without the right support, it can deepen.

PPD doesn’t always look like sadness. It can show up as:

  • Guilt or shame over not feeling “grateful enough”

  • Irritability, hopelessness, or emotional flatness

  • Feeling disconnected from your baby or partner

  • Trouble sleeping—even when the baby is asleep

  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions

  • Fears that something bad will happen, or that you’re not fit to parent

  • Withdrawing from others and pretending you’re okay

And perhaps most painfully: the fear that you’re alone in this.

You Are Not Alone

The truth is that postpartum depression affects 1 in 7 women. It does not care how much you love your baby, how “together” your life looks on the outside, or whether this was your first child or your third.

Motherhood is a profound life transition. Your body is healing. Your hormones are shifting. Your identity is evolving. And in the middle of all this change, you’re responsible for keeping a tiny human alive.

Even with a loving partner or supportive family, postpartum depression can take hold. And when support is limited—or when expectations are unrealistic—the risk grows.

Therapy Can Help You Feel Like You Again

In our work together, we’ll create a space where you can finally exhale. You’ll be free to share what you’re feeling without judgment, shame, or pressure to “just enjoy it.” You’ll gain tools to:

  • Understand the emotional and biochemical roots of PPD

  • Reconnect with your baby, your partner, and yourself

  • Regulate overwhelming feelings like fear, guilt, or anger

  • Communicate your needs more effectively

  • Rebuild confidence in yourself as a mother and as a person

We’ll also talk about how motherhood is reshaping your identity—as a woman, partner, daughter, friend—and how to make space for your own needs in a life now centered around caregiving.

You Deserve Support, Not Silence

There is no single “right” way to feel after giving birth. But if you’re hurting, disconnected, or simply not yourself, you don’t have to wait it out or hide it. Getting help is not a sign of weakness—it’s a powerful act of love for yourself and your family.

I offer postpartum counseling in Manhasset and across Long Island, with in-person and virtual sessions available. You deserve to feel supported, grounded, and seen in this tender season of life.

Call me at (516) 627-1145 for a complimentary consultation to discuss any of these or related topics.

Dr. Maryann B. Schaefer, LMHC

Ph.D. – Counseling, Concentration in Psychology
NYS Licensed Mental Health Counselor
Fellow of American Psychotherapy Association

Phone: (516) 627-1145

Email: drmaryannschaefer@gmail.com

5 Travers Street  Manhasset, NY 11030

Office Hours: By appointment only.

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